First Date Tips For Men

If you are a man and dating for the first time - it’s very exiting isn't it. But remember don't get too exited else this will show on your date and it may be a huge turn off. So even before you finish the first paragraph of this article, here goes the first dating tips for men - BE NORMAL - don't get too exited on your first date.

Ok. Don't be just too normal. You know what while "trying to be too normal" men tend to behave in a very awkward way, and women can’t take that. The idea is behave in a "feel good manner", that is feel and think positive and be normal in a way that the date with you also gets positive waves from you, and feel good about you. Just this small tip can help you impress your first date.

Let’s discuss about the dress. Here you have to be at your best. Tip: Dress your BEST. But remember you aren't going to a marriage or a party or an office, just dress smart and feel comfortable in your dress. (Hint: T-shirt and Jeans is the best choice. If you don't feel comfortable in it wear a nice looking shirt, a trouser and good shoes – no slippers.) Shave / trim your beards. If you do not dress well and your date tells it to you - you will feel embarrassed. Your whole day is wasted. Let your dress not come between your date and you. Yes, and don't forget to take a bath and put some Deodorant ;-). It feels good to smell good.

Phew. Its time for the date. Arrive on time. 5 minutes here and there is ok, but arrive on time. Whatever the case REACH BEFORE THE GIRL. If the girl reaches there before you and not find you she might leave the spot immediately. Remember girls have ego too and during the initial stages of a relationship built up, they demand respect - and a lot of it. If you arrive late, she might think you are looking for a casual relationship. Girls don't like casual relationships. They are serious at least to begin with.

Gifts? No DO NOT bring any gifts on your first date. One she might not like the gift, two you are still not in a relationship. Wait for the right occasion for a gift. There will be many.

If she is looking good (even if she is not), complement her. Tell her that she is looking good or beautiful (use whatever adjective you think is right.) But do complement her. She will like it. Don't over do it though. Just once or twice is enough.

Many men are confused as to where to meet? Best place for first meeting is a restaurant, or zoo. Restaurant is best because you both can be comfortable. You can occupy a two-seater table so that no one else listens to your conversation or shares the table with you. It’s a very comfortable situation to talk. Zoo is a second best option because of the simple reason that you have enough things to talk to. People love animals and talking about them will make you both happy. (Hint: there are many animal jokes that you can share. Be prepared.)

What to talk? As said, zoo will give you many ideas to talk, but a restaurant will not. However you can talk about food (if she likes it), like the food you like, ask her what she likes etc. Don't talk about recipes. Don't talk about your job or her job. In fact no professional talk. This is a social occasion - don't make it official. Don't talk about your past or ask about her past. Bottom-line - don't talk about anything that will make you/her sad. (Hint: She won’t get emotional if you try to win her that way. Trying to show that life was pain and win her emotionally will not work here.) It’s your first meeting. Keep it simple.

Should you drink? Light alcohol is ok, but its better to avoid. You are not 100% when drunk. This is an important occasion and you want to be your 100%, right? So do not drink.

When you are talking make it a point to look into her eyes while conversing. Looking at someone else while talking will throw an impression that you are not serious. Try that there is no dull moment while you are talking. Girls get bored too fast, so this one is difficult. You should come prepared. The best tip is flow with the moment. For example if she is tells you about a cousin whom she likes, you can mention about your cousin / uncle too who is a very humorous and that you like him/her. That way conversation will flow from one topic to another.

Should you kiss while bidding goodbye? Now this is a very personal question to answer. If you feel comfortable go ahead and give her a peck, if not leave it. Kissing will not have any impact on your relationship.

Tell her you will call her again only if you will actually call her. If you like the girl and are sure you want to take the relationship to the next level, do say "It was nice meeting you. Thanks for giving me such a wonderful time." If she is interested she will reply with, "Thank you too. It was nice meeting." At this point of time you can kiss her, wish her goodbye and tell her that you will call her again. (Hint: If you thank her for the meeting and she does not respond, or just smiles but does not say anything - she might not be interested in you.) At this point you can wish her goodbye. No need to say that you will call later. If you feel like calling her do call again, but there is no need to mention.

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